Write, on a sheet of paper, exactly what you have done that needs forgiveness.
Fold up the sheet and then write the name of the offended party.
Anoint it with only a drop of oil or maybe a drop of charged water.
Don't drown the paper or else it won't burn which is the next step.
Take a matchstick and light the paper in a fire safe container.
With the crime destroyed and the ashes washed away, say
"Forgiveness I seek and safety I need,
help me now prepare the seed."
If you have a garden or a simple plant, scattering the ashes will help foster growth within the relationship.
Charged water is any liquid that possesses a spiritual and usually not physical quality,
given by prayers, chants, and incantations. It's basically a Wiccan form of Holy Water.
Using a gemstone or other item to give it a charge is also a good idea.
Magnets are often used to give the water a special force and sapphires are good,
general enchanters. Keep in mind however that some crimes cannot be forgiven and
harsh words will only galvanize a situation.