Free Spells For Friendship, Attracting, Forgiving, etc.
FRIENDSHIP CANDLE SPELL
Pink Candle Good Luck/Friendship Oil Pink silk Ribbon White Silk Ribbon
Cast the Circle, Arrange altar, Invoke Goddess and God
You will want to anoint the pink with Good Luck oil all the while thinking of the friends you want to make.
Imagine yourself laughing with them, going out with them. Really see yourself with them.
After your candle has been anointed, you may light it. At this point you may call out the things that
are important to you in a friend: honesty, trust, open mindedness, humor, whatever.
As you light the candle, see the flame as being the energy that burns between any two close friends.
When this is completed, take your two pieces of silk ribbon and weave them together.
Simply winding them around each other will do.
While you do this, think of bringing that friend closer to you.
This binding process is reminiscent of pagan handfasting rituals.
You are binding that friend to you, making them loyal to you, a way any good friend should be.
You do not want to bind a specific person to you, as that kind of magic is harmful since is
harms the other person's free will. Only bind the idea of the perfect friend to you.
Once you have done this, tie the ribbon to the base of your candle as best as you can.
The candle's light is a beacon to bring friendship to you and another person.
When this is done, you may wish to sit and meditate on the spell that you have just cast,
sending your energies out to bring that perfect friend to you. When you feel that your spell has
been completed, then it has. Let your candle burn all the way out and release your circle,
thanking the Goddess and the God.
SPELL TO MAKE AN ENEMY INTO A FRIEND
You will need: a picture of your enemy, or a drawing if a photo is not available.
Make sure no one else is in the photo if you use one. Vanilla incense.
Take the picture of your enemy and pass it through the smoke of the vanilla incense.
While doing this say the following 3 times:
Enemy, enemy, turn into friend
let all ill will now come to an end.
FRIENDSHIP SPELL TO END AN ARGUEMENT
--Two candles with the astrological color correspondences of both your signs.
Light both candles. Chant:
Candle shining in the night
With your flame enchanted,
By the powers of magic might
May my wish be granted.
Winds of friendship blow this way, from now until our final day.
This spell that I send is now at an end.
Let the magick I've laid, go forth and not fade! So mote it be!
Sprinkle cinnamon over the candles, watching as it crackles.
Blow out the candles in the direction of your friend's house, so the smoke wafts in his/her direction.
Each morning the following week, have cinnamon toast for breakfast.
And if you can, sprinkle cinnamon on your cappuccino.
And if you like it, chew cinnamon gum. (Are you sensing a theme here?)
If it's in the best interests of the universe, your friend will agree with you during the week.
SPELL TO END A QUARREL WITH SOMEONE
small piece rhodonite assorted flowers
cauldron filled half-way with water (preferably spring or filtered)
Before the spell begins, decorate your altar with fresh cut flowers in a manner that will allow
them to witness your work. Call upon you're the appropriate deity/spirit of your tradition and
ask them to witness your spell.
Place the stone in the center of the cauldron with water.
Open yourself and allow yourself to feel peaceful.
When you are relaxed, take a step back and while concentrating on the quarrel say.
The time has come for his quarrel to end.
Let anger be released and begin the mend.
Repeat this until you can feel any anger or hurt about the argument floating away.
Collect the flowers and put them in a vase using the water from your cauldron.
Keep them in a place in your home that you go to often and allow then to remind you that all will be well soon.
Give the stone to the other person as a gift.
Try to resolve your differences rationally and if you feel yourself getting angry repeat the chant to yourself.
Your argument should be well on it's way to being over by the time the flowers wilt.
BREAKING UP AN ARGUMENT SPELL
To be done after an argument has occurred between you and a loved one.
Draw two figures on separate sheets of paper-one representing you and the other representing
the other person. Personalize the figures as needed (e.g.. Draw yellow on the head for blond
hair, draw glasses , etc.) Place an unbroken bay leaf on one figure and lay the other figure
face-down on top, creating a sandwich type thing. Say:
"Let the bay leaf take the energy and anger that is between us."
Separate the figures. Pick up the bay leaf and crumple it in the palm of your hand.
While doing so, say:
" As this leaf is broken and blown away,
Let the anger contained within also break and blow away."
Place the figures again on top of each other and say,
"Now there is no anger between us."
Blow the leaf to the wind. Wrap the figures up with a pink ribbon and put in safe place.
SPELL TO OVERCOME AN ENEMY
Take a brown candle and write your enemy's name on it three times.
Place it a bowl of brown sugar. Light the candle and affirm;
"Your hostility, I'll overcome.
In days of nine, your friendship is mine."
Do this before you go to bed. Allow the candle to burn out while you sleep.
In the morning take what is left of the candle wax and the brown sugar and throw
it in your enemy's yard. Do this for nine consecutive days without fail.
SPELL FOR NEW FRIENDSHIP
Inscribe a pink candle with your name, then anoint the rose quartz with sunflower oil.
Light the candle. Hold the stone in your hand, and visualize friendships coming your
way and a new relationships forming. Chant three times
open mind, and gain new life,
gone from you, all stress and strife.
open heart, gain life anew.
accept all love that's offered you.
positive thought and word and deed.
enter now, of bane I'm freed
ancient, hear me---grant my plea
to new relationships, open me.
place the stone by the candle, and leave it there until the candle burns down.
carry the stone with you.
SPELL TO GAIN FORGIVENESS
Write the name of the one offended on one side of a Popsicle stick, and yours on the other side.
Place the stick in a jar, fill the jar half full with sugar. Chant:
In this sugar we both stand, back to back, but hand to hand,
Change (name of the person's) sour thoughts of me, to sweet forgiving thought, I plead.
Add water untill three fourth full....and say with this water:
I wash away all that keeps us now at bay sugar water,
I now pray let forgiveness come my way
Cap the jar tightly and shake 9 times, saying:
Sugar sweet do your thing and bring (name of the person) forgiveness,
Quickly bring him/her of thoughts of me so sweet
That his/her forgiveness is complete
Shake the jar 9 times each day while saying the last chant.
THE TRUE LOVE/FRIENDSHIP SPELL
(A spell to find true love or friendship)
You will need:
A pink candle/red candle (Pink for friendship or red for love, depending on what you want)
A piece of paper (Either red or pink depending on the intent.)
If both can't be found, just use a white sheet of paper)
A pen (Any color ink is fine but it is advisable to use pink for friendship, red for love)
Some rose incense
The spell: This spell must take three days to perform and is best if done at night.
You may wish to wear something red or pink depending on what you want, love or friendship.
The first part of the spell is to find a room that is dimly lit and begin the spell by first lighting
the candle and incense. Close your eyes and meditate, inhale the sweet smell of the rose
incense, feeling as if you are totally surrounded by roses.
Totally relax yourself and free yourself from tension
After feeling totally relaxed, take the piece of paper and the pen and write down what you want
your friend or dream lover to be, whether you want him to be handsome or you want him to be the
quiet type, write everything down. Think about what you want his character to be and write
everything down. Concentrate hard on these characteristics and tell yourself that there is such
a perfect person in the world. You may even wish to write a love poem to strengthen the spell
but please make sure your poem is original as in you wrote it yourself. Once you think that you
have listed everything, look deep into the candle flame of the pink candle and meditate hard
on this person you wish to conjure up. Then before you end the spell, repeat this incantation:
''I conjure thee, I conjure thee
I am the queen, you are the bee
As I desire, so mote it be!"
Perform this spell for three consecutive nights to see if you have any more things you wish to
add to that list. On the third night repeat the same procedure, only that at the end of the spell
you use the flame from the pink candle and burn the whole paper and leave the paper in
a bowl to cool. Then drop three drops of wax on the ashes and spiritually cleanse the ash
by waving rose incense over it. Right after, take a small pouch and empty the ash into the pouch.
Then fill the pouch with a mixture of white and red rose petals and leaves.
Carry the small pouch with you wherever you are to attract this friend or lover you conjured
into your life.
SURE AND SIMPLE LOVE SPELL
This spell is simple and requires no searching for exotic ingredients.
It is performed to draw people to you (friends) and enhance your sexual attraction
(if you desire more than friends)
In many ways, this is a confidence and self esteem spell.
You can focus on a specific person during the rite in order to strengthen the bond between
you or to draw that person to you. Remember the laws of return however, that which you send
out will often return to you.
Do a thorough physical cleaning of your bathroom, and cover any mirrors with material
(white or pink towels or sheets are nice)
Then draw a bath and to the water add a small handful (about 1/3 to 1/2 cup) sea salt or other
available salt while saying: negativity is washed away I am renewed as of today!
Many heads will turn my way, the ones I chose will wish to stay.
Light three white votive candles or place 3 floating candles in the bath tub, focus on your body,
how sensual it is, how beautiful you are. Everyone is beautiful, this spell is just drawing out your best!
Focus on what you like about yourself (there is something!).
You may also begin to focus on that specific person if desired.
Turn off the lights and turn on your favorite music if possible, something that makes you feel
reckless and sexy, or calm and at peace with yourself, depending on your taste, mood, and
the desired end result you want. For example, for sex, you may want a sexy rock album,
for general attraction, you may want a happy mellow song. The feeling that the music evokes
in you is important. Enter the bath and relax, make sure every part of your body is immersed
in the water at least once. If you don't have a bathtub, tie the salt up in a wash cloth while
saying the above words, and use it in the shower.
Repeat the original words above, and end it with:
I am blessed, I am loving, I am loved and love myself! I am love!
I know it sounds kind of funny, but this one really works.
Feel free to intuitively add what you like to this, sandalwood or rose soap, incense
a glass of your favorite ritual beverage, bath oil... especially those made with herbal extracts or
essential oils, our favorite perfume or cologne, a special bath towel purchased for this ritual only, etc.
Your intuition will only serve to refine this working and enhance its effects!
SPELL FOR CONTACTING A FRIEND
This spell should be used to cause someone with whom you have lost contact to contact you.
It is not manipulation so much as an astral call for contact when you have no other way to
reach them that you know of.
You will need:
White candle anointed w/ sandalwood oil Sandalwood incense
photo of the person small glass of water salt
Light the white candle and the incense. Place the picture of the person on your altar.
Put 2 heaping tablespoons of salt in the palm of your right hand. Let a small amount of
salt trickle into the glass while making the sign of the equal armed cross of the elements.
Make this cross 3 times. Say " Call me" three times as you do this. Then set the glass on
the altar and say "Get in touch with me, please." They should contact you by the time
the water has evaporated from the glass.
A SPELL FOR FORGIVENESS
This is a spell for self-acceptance when you have made a mistake or are filled with guilt or regrets.
You will need; 1 black candle 1 white candle cup or chalice of clear water
either milk or juice image of the Goddess green plant
Cast a circle. Sit facing North
Light white candle and say;
Here is ________whose spirit burns as
brightly as this flame.
I come to you for forgiveness
Light the black candle and say;
Here are the negative things in my life.
All my anger and shame are here.
Hold the cup in both hands, filled with clear water.
You should have before you the image of the goddess and the green plant.
Visualize all the negative things you are feeling about yourself, the mistakes you have
made, the things you have done wrong.
Admit you feel bad, think about what you have done wrong, and let your emotion build energy.
Project all the energy into the cup. Breathe on the water to raise your power.
Visualize the Goddess as a forgiving Mother. Imagine her hands cover yours. Hear Her say:
I am the Mother of all things,
I pour my Love upon the earth.
I drink you in with perfect love,
Be cleansed. Be healed. Be changed.
Pour the water onto the plant, and feel all your negative emotions draining out of you.
Fill the cup with milk or juice. Raise more power, and visualize yourself as you would
like to be, free of guilt and sorrow. Now say,
"Mine the cup, the waters of life. Drink deep!"
Know that you have changed, that you are now a new person, not affected by the
patterns and errors of the past. Ground yourself and open the circle.
Light a candle in a quiet room and then stare at the flame.
Wait for it to be straight or telepathically make it straight, then chant unto the fire:
By the power of three times three,
I conjure thee! I conjure thee!
Let (Full Name) be a good friend of me!
By the burning candle I now carry out the spell.
Now blow out the candle. As the smoke rises into the heavens, this spell has begun.
Write, on a sheet of paper, exactly what you have done that needs forgiveness.
Fold up the sheet and then write the name of the offended party.
Anoint it with only a drop of oil or maybe a drop of charged water.
Don't drown the paper or else it won't burn which is the next step.
Take a matchstick and light the paper in a fire safe container.
With the crime destroyed and the ashes washed away, say
"Forgiveness I seek and safety I need,
help me now prepare the seed."
If you have a garden or a simple plant, scattering the ashes will help foster growth within the relationship.
Charged water is any liquid that possesses a spiritual and usually not physical quality,
given by prayers, chants, and incantations. It's basically a Wiccan form of Holy Water.
Using a gemstone or other item to give it a charge is also a good idea.
Magnets are often used to give the water a special force and sapphires are good,
SPELL FOR RECONCILIATION
--1 white candle --1 blue candle --1 pink candle
Anoint each with love oil. Carve the names of yourself and the person you wish to reconcile
with in the blue candle. Invoke cerridwen and pan. Light the white candle and say:
"Cerridwen, Mother, blessed be
I light this white candle to remove hostility."
Light the blue candle and say:
"Mother and Father, blessed be
Bring between (name) and I tranquility."
Light the pink candle and say:
"pan and Eros, blessed be
If there is still love between us, let it be.
For the good of all and harm to none, as I will, So mote it be!" Let the candles burn down.
SPELL TO BRING LOVE AND RESPECT
During the full moon, and the nights before and after, go outside under the stars and light
a white candle. Hold it in front of you and chant the following:
Sun and moon and earth and sky
Bring me love Make it fly.
Repeat as often as feels natural, then blow out (or snuff out) the candle.
SPELL TO MAKE SOMEONE DREAM OF YOU
Do you ever want to get an important message through to someone,
but you just don't know how to do it? Here is what you do:
Determine precisely what it is you want them to hear, or perhaps feel.
Write down your wish on a piece of paper in simple sentence form.
Make a dream pillow using a small square of fabric and a little batting.
Throw in a pinch of lavender and rosemary.
Put in the piece of paper last, then sew up the end.
Put the dream pillow on your altar.
Do an altar devotion to center yourself, then create sacred space.
Cast a circle and call the quarters if you like, but is isn't necessary.
Center yourself, then hold your hands over the dream pillow and say the following:
Holy Mother, Goddess Divine,
I stand before your sacred shrine.
This person won't listen or hear
My words tickle at deafened ear.
Holy Mother, Goddess Divine,
Send a dream, awaken the mind.
Through his/her vision he/she might live
The nightmare/passion/lesson he/she so freely give.
Holy Mother, Goddess Divine
Send them your enchanted design
Clear out the cobwebs, tear down walls
Carry my message through spirit calls.
Feel free to change the incantation to suit your purpose.
THE MAGICK IN HAIR
To always hear your lover's words, brush a feather over their lips as they sleep, and
wear the feather in your hair, next to your ear, at all times. To keep closer ranks with
your friends, braid a lock of their hair in with yours.
MAGIC RECONCILIATION AMULET
Trace your hand and write the person's name in its palm.
Wrap it and tie it up around a dried honey comb, or honey-flavored candy, while saying:
"I open my hand and heart, so that anger may depart."
Carry this to your next meeting with the person.
SPELL FOR RECONCILIATION
This spell is for a case where you are willing to admit your own fault in a matter
whether a simple miscommunication or a dramatic confrontation.
You must accept that you cannot change another person but you can change yourself.
It may be for a lover who has left you.
-- one white candle one blue candle one pink candle
Anoint each with love potion.
Carve the name of yourself and the person you wish to reconcile with on the blue candle.
Invoke Cerridwen and Pan.
Light the white candle.
Cerridwen, mother, blessed be
I light this white candle to remove hostility
Light the blue candle.
Mother and father, blessed be
Bring between _______ and I love and tranquility;
By the love Goddesses let him remember and love me...
Light the pink candle.
Pan and Eros, blessed be
If there is still love between us, let it be
For the Good of all and the Harm of none, as I will, so mote it be!
Let candles burn down.
Act in accord. Call the person or somehow indicate you have lowered your hostility
and long for his/her return. Personalize the chant to make it right for you.
FRIENDSHIP BINDING SPELL
You will need red construction paper, a white pen or white out, a needle, and a white candle.
Using the white out/pen, write the person's full name twice, in a circle; making the ends meet.
Then write your name the same way but entwine your name into the other person's name.
If there is more than one person, do the same. After lighting the candle, carve the initial(s)
of the person(s) name on the candle, then stick the needle into the center of the names.
Meditate afterwards and imagine the faces in the flame.
At the bottom of the paper, write B/F/F/L (best friends for life).
A SPELL TO HELP LIFT HARD FEELINGS AND HEAL EMOTIONAL RIFTS
Item needed: 1 Quartz crystal
Find a nice quiet place where you can lay down, place the quartz crystal on you third eye and say:
"I call upon Gula, great goddess of Healing,
Guide the help to direct any bad feelings,
See this dark specters reeling.
By the grace of your power I ask you to heal them.
Teach each to feel what the other feels,
By the power of three, I wish it to be."
If you focus on one person the spell will affect that person a little better than just doing in general.
LOVE BATH TO ATTRACT FRIENDS
Need: ½ teaspoon yerba maté or sage, 1 tablespoon of pineapple juice, some bread crumbs.
Light a pink (for romance) or red (for passionate relationship) candle in your bathroom.
Pour all of the ingredients in the cheesecloth and fill your bath with water bath, go inside
and place the cheesecloth (tied) into the bath water and let it diffuse, visualize the kind
of lover you want and what type of relationship you wish to have. Thank the goddess/gods
and snuff out the candle (don't blow out!). Do not rinse or use soap.
Let this beauty/attraction bath stay on you for the rest of the night.
This magic spells section details and explains free spells for friendship, attracting, and forgiving. A friendship candle spell is a commonly used magic spell for attracting a new friend or a new friend interest. Other free magic spells are to make an enemy into a friend, a free magic friendship spell to end an argument, a free magic spell to end a quarrel with someone, and also a free magic spell for breaking up an argument. Also free magic spells to gain forgiveness, free magic true love/friendship spells, and a free magic spell to help lift hard feelings and heal emotional rifts between friends spell.