Chili Powder Cinnamon Galangal Black Pepper Iron Filings Vetivert Pinch Bitter Aloes or Vetivert Use when you desire to break any relationship. Creates animosity between lovers and business associates. Forces an eventual separation.
Here is a handy spell to end a relationship. You will need to know your astrology symbols. Get a black piece of paper. On this black paper at the top of it you want to put the signs for Pluto, the Moon, and Saturn, on the paper, in black ink, at the top. At the bottom put a pentagram (five pointed star) upside down, also in black ink. On one side of the star put your birthday, on the other you put your partner's birthday, also in black ink. Burn the paper. As you do so shout "NAI-KAM-MO" Mail the ashes to the person. (Only do this spell once a week until that person leaves.)
Carve the taker's name and the words "GOOD BYE" on a black candle. Dress it with Uncrossing oil. At its base place a broken or unlinked length of fine chain. Light the candle and as it burns, have a good cry and say "good bye." When the candle has burned about half-way, use its flame to set afire a photo or name-paper of the taker, then extinguish the candle in the ashes of the paper and throw the whole mess, broken chain and all, away at a crossroads in the dark of the night or bury it in a graveyard. Go home and bathe in astringent and pungent protective and mind-clearing herbs such as eucalyptus, walnut, bay, and the like (e.g. Herb Bath) and get on with your life.
Be sure you want to break the linkcompletely. This is folk-magic, and it works. It can only be worked in Fall, when the black walnuts are ready to harvest. Because it is performed naked, in the dark, it is not suitable for everyone. You will need: * a piece of paper from a brown paper bag, freshly torn on all four sides * a small pencil with no eraser on it * matches * a black candle -- it can be a plain offertory candle, a taper, or a figural candle of a human or a devil. * black powder incense to which you should add Valerian Root, Red Pepper, and Mullein Leaves. (If you cannot find plain black powder incense and those herbs, use an herb-based mixture containing them, such as Black Arts Incense.) * nine black walnuts still in their green husks. You will probably have to go into the country for these -- they are not sold in stores. * a silver-colored metal bowl. Place the walnuts in the bowl. Undress at midnight on a night when the moon is dark. Take all the supplies into your bathroom. In the dark, with no light, write your ex-lover's name on the piece of paper, and say [Name of Person], this is the last time I will write your name! Light the candle, use the candle to light the incense, look at the name paper and say [Name of Person], this is the last time I will see your name! Fold the paper in half so the name can no longer be seen. Draw a hot bath and throw the nine black walnuts into it. The water may turn brownish. Get into the bath with the walnuts. Pour the dark water over your head nine times and each time you pour it, say: [Name of Person], I wash you out of my life. Arise from the bath and pull the plug. As the water runs out, pick up the candle and hold it over the bath water. Take the person's name-paper in your other hand and set it on fire with the candle. As it burns, say: [Name of Person], I burn you out of my life. Drop the burning paper into the bath water, wait a brief moment, then plunge the candle upside down into the bath water to extinguish it while you say: [Name of Person], I extinguish you. Do not dry yourself with a towel, only let the air dry you. When the water has all run out, collect the nine walnuts (and the husk fragments) and place them back in the bowl. Now, still entirely naked, walk outside carrying the bowl of walnuts and throw them away at a crossroads or street intersection or, if that is impossible, throw them against a tree -- but be careful to not drop any pieces of them in your own yard. As you throw away the walnuts, say: [Name of Person], you are dead to me And dead to me you'll always be Wander the world both near and far But touch me not, for dead you are! Carry the empty bowl home without looking back, wash it out, and put it away. As long as you never write or speak the person's full name again, he or she will remain out of your life and your former love will be broken. VARIANT: Get 9 Walnuts and boil them in 3 quarts of water until the water evaporates down to 1 quart in volume and turns brown. Then place the walnuts and their water in the bowl, as described above, and proceed as described except that when it comes time to throw the Black Walnuts into the bath with their husks, throw in the boiled walnuts with their quart of brown water.
This spell from New Orleans encourages a love rival to turn his or her attention elsewhere and is best done on Friday or Saturday night during a waning or New Moon. Beginning after sundown, gather some raw meat a little past its prime, something "broken", some angelica, a garlic clove, and a leek. Tie these things together in a cheesecloth bound by black thread. On the outside paint the letter "X" three times in dragon's blood ink. Douse the entire charm, known as a gris-gris in New Orleans, in lime juice. Before dawn, take the charm to your rival's home and toss it onto the lawn saying: "By this spell, you must find a love that steals your heart and mind. Turn your heart from my love, and make a new start."
When we share intimate relationships with people, often we unconsciously take on some of our partner's traits and visa versa. In a close relationship this can deepen the connection and allow two people to function and relate more easily as one. However this condition is not desirable because it ultimately weakens both parties involved. Pieces of your soul become artificially incorporated into other people and visa versa. So if the relationship breaks by any circumstance, both parties may feel as though they're missing parts of themselves, and also are haunted with some of pieces of the other's behaviors, thinking and emotional patterns, etc. Now, your soul is linked to you no matter where it has been stretched to. There are always threads leading back to the source which can never (or only with deliberate effort) be wholly severed. So by breathing with those threads, it is possible to retract the lost parts of yourself, and release the parts which are not yours to keep. Do this as follows.
Locate your center. Reach within and locate what is not you. Exhale and release this out back into the world. Reach out and feel the scattered bits of yourself. Inhale and feel those pieces retract back into your center. Repeat until ending of meditation. Center yourself again and sit for a minute to relax. Do this daily until you feel whole again and not psychically attached to any external persons. You will find that there are far more than just one single person who has bits of you out there, and far more than just one other person who you've detained within. It's a form of psychic parasitism that almost all people unconsciously partake in on a continual basis (some consciously as well). By doing the above exercise you will reconsolidate yourself. After this has happened you will become better rooted with a much stronger sense of personal boundaries, and you can thus better protect yourself from future occurrences.
You will need: --one egg one pink candle rose petals lemon balm honey rose oil (optional) Take the egg in one hand. Sit quietly and think about the relationship you have just ended, and your feelings about splitting up. Allow all your negative feelings, grief, frustration and loneliness to come to the surface. Cry, howl and bawl if you need to - the end of a relationship is like a death and you should allow yourself to grieve and not feel ashamed about it. While thinking about the relationship, take the egg and roll it gently over your face and forehead. Imagine that the egg is like a sponge which can soak up your grief, your need, and all the negative emotions which are holding you back and dampening your spirits. Project all your unhappiness over the relationship into the egg and let it soak up all your negative feelings. When you feel that the egg has sucked up all your unhappiness and negative feelings over this broken relationship, take it to a plot of earth - preferably not your own garden - and bury it. If it must be on your property, bury it as far as possible from your house. Know that the negative feelings and depression you projected onto the egg are being absorbed and neutralized by the earth. Return to your house, preferably to your own bedroom or some place where you spend a lot of time. Make yourself some lemon balm tea with some of the rose petals, and sweeten it to taste with honey. Sprinkle the rest of the rose petals around the candle and yourself, if you have enough. Light the candle. Imagine the warmth of the candle and the scent of the rose petals combining and filling the room with warmth, sweet rose scent and soft pink light. Let the pink light and scent fill you with loving warmth and comfortable feelings. If you have some, anoint your chest just over the heart with a little rose oil. Sip the lemon balm tea. Say quietly and with conviction: 'Gentle balm, soothe my heart Bring to me your healing art'. Imagine yourself surrounded by love and peace, sheltered from discomfort and loneliness. Know that you deserve love and that you are now free of your previous relationship and open to a new one. Gaze into the candle flame and imagine yourself happy and healed, living a joyful and fulfilling life without the person you have just broken up with.
One egg to seven eggs depending (personally I'd go with seven eggs) Eggs are fabulous, particularly free-range eggs, which are generally sold in supermarkets today. Purchase these and at least you won't have those poor tortured chickens on your conscience. Now, if you are still having lots of trouble getting over someone who you know you should not want back, go get yourself an egg. Or maybe seven. On seven consecutive Friday nights (Friday is devoted to Aphrodite, so you'll be asking for her help here with this spell) draw yourself a lovely long bath, just at the right temperature. When it's comfy to hop in (again burn a black candle to bathe by-it'll help those "fond" bittersweet memories that will drift up) take your egg (Which you shouldn't wash prior to this) and place it very carefully in the bath with you. Now get in and let your mind wander over all the reasons which affirm that it's best for you and that person who you know is absolutely no good for you should be apart. Don't get lost in horrible memories, instead gently remind yourself that you are no longer going to allow anyone to rob you of your self-respect and self-esteem. You are doing your magic to empower yourself. Do not think about how great it would be to get with him or her and them dump him or her. If revenge is still your problem, see the above spell. The egg, symbol, by the way, of the Goddess, is a reminder of our ability to create ourselves anew, that new life is always within our reach as long as we allow ourselves to be reborn and let go of the past- particularly if it is damaging us. Contemplate these things and feel glad and happy that you will soon be embracing the new. Drain the bath- doesn't remove the egg until all the water has drained and you are safely out. DON'T EAT THE EGG! Bury it, if you wish, in a place where you be sure it won't be unearthed, or wrap it up in thick paper, stomp on it (one more chance to get rid of the negative) and chuck it in the bin. Do this every Friday for seven weeks. If you still get pangs for what's his face, you may need to do a little work on the astral plane. Get yourself an egg and roll it gently over your naked body, standing in the moonlight is best. This will loosen and soften the ties that bind you to thing.
Focus your thoughts on the person you want to no longer have feelings for. Think of all the reasons of yours & traits of theirs that you can, to back up your decision. Write this person's name on a small slip of paper. Cross out the name with deliberation. Say: You no longer hold a special place in my heart. You are not the right person for me. I will bury my feelings for you here & make a fresh start. Bury this bit of paper & all your feelings about this person outside under a waning moon.
Cast this spell on a Saturday, the day symbolizing death and endings. This spell will enable you to view the relationship as finished and get on with your new life. Hanging on to the past will itself be a thing of the past. --1 yellow candle 2 sheets parchment paper or handmade paper green ink --2 drops essential rose oil 2 drops sandalwood oil a piece of green stone, jade, or green glass --1 green candle heat-resistant container Cast a circle of protection. Light the yellow candle and repeat: "I allow (name of ex-lover) to peacefully leave my life. I am glad that this is so. " On the piece of parchment, write down all your negative feelings about the ending of the relationship, all the injustices and wounds you felt you were dealt. Do not hold back. Let your emotions bleed into the spell (figuratively speaking of course). Weep or wail if you wish-this is the time for grieving, and take as long as you must. When you have completed your grieving and calmed yourself, sprinkle the oils over the paper. Light the green candle and hold the parchment and glass bead over the flame. Repeat three times: "Let all fury, anger and despair depart my heart. (Name of ex-lover) is free to leave my life. I now allow the winds of change to bring my good fortune to me. " Place the paper and glass (or mineral) into the heat-resistant dish and allow it to burn down into ash. Feel the pain of the relationship burning away; allow the flames of anger to die down to embers, then ash. When cool enough to handle, take the glass keepsake to a body of water and throw it into its depths and do not look back. As an alternative, bury it deep in the earth, and do not look back. Allow the spell ten days to work.
You will need the following ingredients (be sure to charge them all before you begin): - Strawberry tea (one bag) -Small wand or stick from a willow tree - Sea salt -2 pink candles -A mirror One pink drawstring bag - One quartz crystal A copper penny -A bowl made of china or crystal that is special to you - 1 teaspoon dried jasmine 1 teaspoon orris-root powder - 1 tsp. strawberry leaves 1 teaspoon yarrow - 10 plus drops apple-blossom oil or peach oil 10 plus drops strawberry oil On a Friday morning or evening (the day sacred to Venus) take a bath in sea salt in the light of a pink candle. As you dry off and dress, sip the strawberry tea. Use a dab of strawberry oil as perfume or cologne. Apply makeup or groom yourself to look your best. Cast a circle with the willow wand around a table the other ingredients. Light the second pink candle. Mix all oils and herbs in the bowl. While you stir look at yourself in the mirror and say aloud: "Oh, Great Mother Goddess, enclose me in your loving arms and nurture and bring forth the Goddess within me." Gaze deeply into the mirror after you have finished mixing the ingredients and say aloud: "I represent the Great Goddess, Mother of all things. I shine in the light of the Golden Wings of Isis. All that is great and loving only belongs to me." Then put half the mixture in the pink bag and add the penny and crystal. Carry it with you always [or until you find another love]. Leave the other half of the potion in the bowl, out in a room where you will smell the fragrance. Repeat this ritual every Friday if necessary. Needless to say, you should replace the goddess name with one that you attune to. This spell seems to be written for a woman. However, that does not truly exclude anyone, including you. As well as calling on the Mother Goddess you can call, as well, the Father God (or Horned One). You could use something like, "Great Father God, guide me with your loving will and keep me strong and patient with your wisdom. Nurture and bring forth the God within me." "I am the Great Father God, Mentor and Father to all, I shine in the Holy radiant light of Ra. All that is great and loving, only, belongs to me." Now, you can call on one or the other, whomever you feel will help you best. I would think both would be best, but that's just a personal thing. And if anything written above doesn't appeal to you, change it. The spell will only work if you feel comfortable with it. If the words don't appeal, look for a poem, or create your own calling of the GODS. Remember, not only are you calling the Goddess and God, you ARE the Goddess and God.
Aphrodite: Greek; Goddess of passionate, sexual love. Aphrodite will assist you in pulling loving energy toward yourself. Aradia: Italian; Queen of the Witches, daughter of Diana. Aradia is an extremely powerful entity and a protectress of Witches in general. Artemis: Greek; Goddess of the Moon. Astarte: Greek; Fertility Goddess. Whether you wish to bear children or have a magnificent garden, Astarte will assist in your desire. Demeter: Greek; Earth Mother archetype. Excellent Goddess where birthing or small children are involved. Diana: Roman; Moon Goddess and Goddess of the Hunt. Diana is many faceted. She is seductress (as she enchanted her brother Lucifer to beget Aradia in the form of a cat) as well as a mother figure for Witches. Isis: Egyptia; represents the complete Goddess or the Triple Goddess connotation in one being. Persephone: Greek; Goddess of the Underworld as well as Harvest. Daughter of Demeter. Selene: Greek; Goddess of the Moon and Solutions. Appeal to Selene to bring a logical answer to any problem. Venus: Roman; Goddess of Love and Romance
Adonis: Greek; consort of Aphrodite. Also another name for "lord". In Phoenician his counterpart is Astarte. A vegetarian God. Roman counterpart is Venus. Apollo: Greek and Roman; twin brother of Artemis. God of the Sun, Light and the Arts. Cernunnos: Celtic; Horned God and consort of the Lady. Also Kernunnos. Eros: Greek; God of Romance and Passionate Love. Hymen: Greek; God of Marriage and commitment. His counterpart is Dionysus. Luce: Italian; Soulmate and Brother of Diana. Father of Aradia. God of the Sun and Light. Osiris: Egyptian; counterpart of Isis. Over-all God form including vegetation and after-life. Pan: Greek; God of Nature and the Woods, Laughter and Passion. Also music and personal abandon. Of course, you can refer to either the God and/or Goddess as merely Lord and Lady if it makes you feel more comfortable.
Take a photo of you and your ex-lover depicting a time or event in the past when the relationship was still good for the both of you. Then cut out the ex-lover's image. Cast a circle and burn the image while envisioning a hopeful, joyful life without this person. Do not blame yourself or your ex-lover, nor hold any thoughts of recrimination or revenge while engaged in this meditation. Continue the projection of your future life for a few minutes. Bury the ashes in an appropriate place.
Gather: 1 yellow candle 2 pieces parchment (paper) Green ink 2 drops Carnation oil 2 drops Lilac oil 1 green candle A green item to be used as a talisman. Heat resistant dish. Cast a circle. Light the yellow candle saying: "I light this candle to wash away the pain of a broken relationship and to send out friendship in love and understanding." Write on the parchment, using the green ink, all your hurt feelings. When finished, sprinkle the paper with the oils. Light the green candle and hold the green talisman and parchment over the flame. Say three times: "Let there be love and understanding in (insert both names) relationship. Let the winds of heaven flow over our problems, and see fit to remove them." Place the parchment in the dish and burn it with the flame of the green candle. Scatter the ashes to the wind, and throw the talisman into the ocean, or bury it away from your home.
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